How to Have an Orgasm . . . As Often As You Want: Life-Changing Sexual Secrets for Women and Their Partners

It’s a simple and pleasant experience that millions of women struggle with on a regular basis: having an orgasm. After years of frustrating, orgasmless sex, Rachel Swift chose to confront the problem. She devised a remarkable plan to teach herself to have an orgasm—as often as she wanted. How to Have an Orgasm ... As Often as You Want is her bestselling courageous, witty, and controversial guide that has successfully helped women throughout the world better understand how orgasms work and how to have more enjoyable, fulfilling sexual experiences—with or without the full cooperation of their partners. In clear, honest language focused on realities, not ideals, Swift covers all of the emotional and physical aspects involved in mastering the female orgasm, and offers straightforward steps for achieving it. This is essential reading for every woman who’s ever had trouble reaching orgasm and wants to find out how to transform her sex life forever.

Friendly and affective

The author of this book is just a normal woman, just like the reader. She's not an educated sex therapist and therefore she approaches the subject of female sexuality armed with nothing but common sense. Although it's unfair to say that she's not "educated" in the field of sex because the book contains her personal studies concerning sex and orgasm. The advantage of her "non therapist" title is that she talks to the reader as a friend sitting at her coffee table and somehow the notion of a problem becomes vague and the practicing of a skill becomes more interesting. The book contains an easy step by step guide to reach the goal of getting an orgasm whenever and where-ever one wants. In order to reach this physical pleasure she encourages the reader to be selfish and bring out the egoist and build a sexy self image which by part contains excluding other peoples opinion. Simply put, the goal is to have an orgasm as often as you want and Rachel Swift gives directions in order to reach that goal. Her directions are easy to follow and pleasurable and guarantee success (if followed, of course). The text is friendly, funny and charming and every woman can benefit from it no matter if getting an orgasm is a problem for them or not. Besides it opens a door to the woman's world and every man that wants to become the ideal lover can definitely benefit from reading the book as well.

Just what I was looking for

This book was just what I was looking for. I didn't want some preachy book about how women have been oppressed for so long. I didn't want someone to talk to me in a condescending way, or make assumptions about me or my partners. I wanted something concrete-a program or steps that I could follow. And this is exactly what I found! The author offers a step-by-step program, which guides you to orgasm by taking "baby steps" to get there. The program has helped my relationship immensely, and I know it will be a very rewarding journey all the way through to the last steps!

Good book

It seems that most of the sexual guides out there are geared to giving the man pleasure. In my experience that has never been a problem. The guides that are geared toward woman are usually filled with stories about multi orgasmic woman sharing their adventures. If you are a woman who really wants some clear cut advice that really works given in a friendly chatty kind of format this book is for you. It is written by a woman who had the frustration of regular unsatisfying sex herself and tells how she learned to overcome this. It was not written by some clinical doctor. The program teaches you how to be in control of your own orgasm in bed not be dependent on the abilities of your partner to have one. It's empowering. I definitely recommend this book.

How to Have an Orgasm . . . As Often As You Want: Life-Changing Sexual Secrets for Women and Their Partners

Unleashing Her G-Spot Orgasm: A Step-by-Step Guide to Giving a Woman Ultimate Sexual Ecstasy

Clear, straightforward and to the point, Unleashing Her G-Spot Orgasm helps couples take their sex life to a higher level. This slim volume explains the truth about the G-spot, female ejaculations and blended orgasms. But more importantly, it presents a fail-proof plan for achieving G-spot orgasms.

The author's carefully detailed steps teach a woman's partner how to arouse the G-spot's awesome power in order to give her the ultimate in female pleasure. These proven techniques are amazingly simple and presented in a manner anyone can understand.

Drawing on the latest findings of world-reknowned sex researchers, Unleashing Her G-Spot Orgasm offers a unique combination of clinical fact and everyday application. It answers all the reader's questions about the G-spot, from why the G-Spot exists to how to self-stimulate it.

Do you long to help your lover experience the "Big O" she'll never forget? Are you ready to learn the truth about the G-Spot, Female Ejaculations, Blended Orgasms, and other aspects of female sexuality?" If so, this book is for you. Through a unique marriage of clinical fact and everyday application, this guide combines the latest research findings of world-renowned sexologists and physicians with feedback drawn from over 1000+ surveyed people. People from all walks of life. People...just like you. In this innovative guide, you'll learn a proven and tested "10-Step technique" that can be used by anyone to evoke the G-Spot's awesome power. You'll also learn: 1) How to find the G-Spot 2) How to stimulate and arouse the G-Spot from its latent slumber 3) Why the G-Spot exists 4) How to self-stimulate the G-Spot 5) The truth behind Female Ejaculation: how and why it occurs 6) Why some women have difficulty reaching orgasm and how to overcome this problem 7) The latest findings in sexual research 8) How to achieve blended orgasms.

Great book on the g-spot

I wish to greatly exaggerate how much I enjoyed this book. It was of a good length, not too long, not too little, had no space-fillers, was professionally written, included an in-depth step-by-step guide that showed confidence in the author's knowledge in the area and indeed, effectiveness. It followed up issues such as the woman's psychology on the g-spot and female ejaculation and the male/female response of those who have tried such.

Where similiar books use things such as '101 ways to blah blah blah' this book does no such thing, I found nothing in it to be simply something to embellish the thickness of the book. Each section is relevant to the subject at hand and covers it in every conceivable aspect.

I rate this book with 5-stars because I fully believe that the book deserves it, it offered everything with results to back it up.

Unleashing Her G-Spot Orgasm: A Step-by-Step Guide to Giving a Woman Ultimate Sexual Ecstasy

She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

"When it comes to pleasuring women and conversing in the language of love, cunnilingus should be every man's native tongue," writes clinical sexologist Ian Kerner, Ph.D. in She Comes First, a straightforward, intimate, and exuberant guide to cunnilingus. Kerner first explored "the oral caress" as a way of compensating for his "sexual inadequacies," and quickly learned that women not only welcomed but often preferred "the way of the tongue," reaching orgasm more consistently than through intercourse. Kerner educates readers about the clitoris, "the powerhouse of pleasure," with 18 parts and 8,000 nerve endings (twice as many as the penis) and describes female sexual response from "foreplay" through "coreplay" to "moreplay." A large part of the book is a graphic, detailed primer on "mouth music," including best positions, step-by-step techniques (illustrated), and tips for tongue and fingers. How long should this last? Until the woman has an orgasm or many, says Kerner, and "melts blissfully before your eyes." "The vast majority of women complain about guys who don't like to do it, don't know how to do it, or simply don't do it nearly enough," writes Kerner. This book will change that. Women: Buy it for your partner! --Joan Price

From Publishers Weekly

Dispelling the widely held myth of genital penetration as the apogee of sexual pleasure, Kerner, who holds a doctorate in clinical sexology, offers this witty, well-researched manual for "consistently leading women to orgasm" through cunnilingus. Loaded with practical anatomical information (the clitoris has 18 distinct parts, and more nerve fibers than any other part of the human body) and graphic line drawings, the book also touches on the less mechanical, more psychological aspects of oral sex, including the three assurances every woman needs from her lover to feel comfortable: (1) "you enjoy it as much as she does"; (2) "there's no rush"; and (3) "Her scent is provocative, her taste powerful: it all emanates from the same beautiful essence." Since studies show the average woman takes about 20 minutes to reach her first orgasm during a typical sex session, while men take a mere four minutes, Kerner advises men to delay their own climax and make oral sex "coreplay" ("the substantive phase in which sexual tension builds, culminates and then releases itself through the female orgasm"), instead of foreplay. Breaking down six stages of coreplay, from the "first kiss" to orgasm, Kerner speaks to both beginners and more seasoned lovers. His candor concerning his own bout with sexual dysfunction adds a compassionate tone and credibility to this decidedly pro-female methodology.

She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman

The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio: How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure

Delightfully Delicious!

I really wasn't prepared to actually learn anything from this book. I truly thought this book would be a recap of what I already knew. I was wrong! Like a lot of women, I was guilty of over-simplifying the male sexual cycle. This book addressed many misconceptions women have about the male sexual cycle and male orgasm. It also touches on the unique individuality of every man; just like women no two men are exactly alike in need and preferences in touch.

This book delves into the act of going down along with the gender on the receiving end of this erotic practice but the book is also littered with other practices and erotic short stories by Alison Tyler. Of course the focus is in fellatio and the art of being able to give delightfully. My favorite chapter was on the technique of deep throating. Personally, I thought deep throating was a myth limited to exploitation on porn flicks but after reading the technique I'm sure to experiment with the technique. Every aspect of going down is covered between the pages of this book. If you ever had a question about going down this book answers it whether it concerns ejaculate, techniques, visual stimulation, toys, and even practicing.

The book is a little dry for my taste but packed full of information that is useful and thought provoking if you genuinely want to please and enjoy giving by practicing fellatio I highly recommend you read this book.

Well written and indispensable

This book is very thorough and beginners will find it especially helpful. There's some interesting thoughts on inhibitions, good information on male anatomy and male orgasmic response, and useful suggestions for solo practice, as well as a variety of techniques for male genital massage. The chapter on male anatomy and sexual response will be especially helpful to people with little sexual experience, however they'll need to read it more than once, and will probably find it a little overwhelming. It's very thorough and detailed. Additional information on anal play, fantasies and use of toys rounds out the book. Blue deals with uncomfortable issues in a straightforward way throughout the book, providing thoughts and anecdotes with a healthy attitude toward sex. But the techniques are the heart of the book. I find it indispensable.

The Ultimate Guide to Fellatio: How to Go Down on a Man and Give Him Mind-Blowing Pleasure (Ultimate Guides Series)

Five Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made Simple

Is sex more trouble than it's worth? Are you too slow? Do you rely excessively on prolonged (even painful) intercourse, oral sex or vibrators? Is your orgasm hit or miss?

Now with this bold but simple 3 step program, any woman - YOU - can achieve orgasm without difficulty during sex. IMPOSSIBLE? Not if you follow the quick and easy formula you will learn in this book.

Now there is hope for any woman suffering the agonizing frustration of a too-slow, unreliable or non-existent orgasm. Five Minutes to Orgasm once and for all crushes the dogma that achieving orgasm must take longer for a woman than it does for a man.

Stop blaming your partner for being too fast, inept and uncaring. Five Minutes to Orgasm describes in frank, detailed terms a method for making female orgasm the natural, effortless outcome of each and every lovemaking experience, and frees him from slavery to the female orgasm.

For women only -- Is Sex More Trouble Than It's Worth? Are you too slow, excessively reliant on prolonged (even painful) intercourse, oral sex or vibrators? Is your orgasm hit or miss? Now with this bold but simple 3- step program, any woman can achieve orgasm without difficulty during sex. Impossible? Not if you follow the quick and easy formula you will learn in this book.

Here at last is hope for any woman suffering the agonizing frustration of a too-slow, unreliable or nonexistent orgasm. Five Minutes to Orgasm once and for all crushes the dogma that achieving orgasm must take longer for a woman than it does for a man. Ladies, don't blame your partner for being too fast, inept and uncaring. Five Minutes to Orgasm describes in frank, detailed terms a method for making female orgasm the natural, effortless outcome of each and every lovemaking experience, and helps women overcome this common problem that causes so much happiness in many relationships.

This is the only book that fully explains how to reach orgasm faster during intercourse and shows you step-by-step how to do it. Have fun learning the quick and easy formula. It will help supercharge your relationships and maybe just change your life! Satisfaction Guaranteed!

Give it a shot

As a young married woman, I had given up trying to improve my sexual response during intercourse. My husband and I have tried everything to make me reach orgasm and have failed. UNTIL NOW. This book worked for me and for us as a couple. It will work for you too, if you fall into one of the following categories:

If you can reach an orgasm during intercourse, but it takes so long you and your partner end up more frustrated than satisfied, this book is for you. This book will teach you how to speed up your orgasmic response. The formula will give you the option of having quickies or having all night romantic encounters. IT'S UP TO YOU.

If you have orgasms during masturbation, but fail to reach orgasm consistently during sex, then Five Minutes to Orgasm can help. You will learn how to use that orgasmic ability during lovemaking sessions in order to reach orgasm more efficiently than you ever thought possible.

If you've never reached orgasm at all, the author gives advice on how to masturbate and how to reach the frame of mind it takes to reach orgasm. In other words, how to quit dwelling on your FAILURE and achieve success. From there you will go on to learn how to reach orgasm during intercourse.

The only type of woman who would be disappointed with this book, is the woman who is knowledgeable, skillful, and orgasmic. The book's purpose is NOT to teach you to be a better lover, teach your partner to be a better lover, or teach a man how to bring you to orgasm. This book is not about foreplay techniques, sexual positions, or flirting, or any of the other thousands of suggestions that pass for orgasm techniques. It is one specific formula (made of three steps) for the purpose of reaching orgasm faster and easier.

Men who are tired of waiting on their women to have a climax or who have just given up would be happy to read this book. They are no longer saddled with the burden of being the great lover that brings a non-orgasmic partner to orgasm.

If you fit one of the above categories that would enjoy this book, I suggest you give it a shot. We did, and we're much happier in our sex lives than ever before.

Vindicating!!!

Female orgasm has always been a topic that has interested me. Probably because it was only by accident that at age 20 (I'm now 35 - almost 36), I stumbled upon some information on the role of the clitoris in female orgasm. Up until that point, I didn't even know what a clitoris was - and I'm female!! Why was it not mentioned in sex education courses? Why had my parents never told me about it when they told me about sex? Why did none of my girlfriends know about it?

I couldn't believe that I was so in the dark about my own sexuality. Even though the information was "out there," in many ways it wasn't. It seems that what I, and everyone I knew, thought was that women had orgasms the same way men did: through sexual intercourse (no hands involved).

Needless to say, my discovery of the clitoris led to further reading and my first orgasm! It is difficult to describe HOW HAPPY I felt about it. Not only did I now know that there was nothing wrong with me (I could have orgasms), but I felt more complete as a person because I was now able to experience something (quite pleasurable) that everyone else seemed to be experiencing except for me.

After that, I never had trouble being orgasmic with a partner. I think because I have always, almost instinctually, applied pressure to that area during intercourse (method suggested in this book). Doing so seemed quite natural; it made me have an orgasm very quickly.

But, what gets me is that many of my female friends, now in their mid thirties like myself, continue to have sex without orgasms. Some tell me that they don't care about orgasms that much. Others that they have NEVER had one and would never learn how to have one on their own, while others simply could not tell their partners what they need, or "even worse," touch themselves in front of their partner during sex; so many of them go without and sometimes even fake it.

But, what many women fail to realize is that it is THEIR OWN ATTITUDE ABOUT SEX that is preventing them from having orgasms. In order to be orgasmic you've got to come to terms with your body: you need to learn what you've got down there and how it works on your own. Can you imagine being with a guy who had no idea about his own sexual anatomy, what to do with it or how to have an orgasm? You also have to be willing to play a little more active role in sex: get in positions where you can move your hips and easily reach your clitoris (if he likes the missionary position, you can always switch once you've had `your' orgasm).

I say this book is vindicating because the author, and many of the people she quotes feel exactly like I do. That is, they agree that it is more satisfying for both parties involved if the woman has an orgasm easily and quickly "every time." This is reassuring for me because, many other women I know and talk to about sex seem to prefer to have an orgasm once in a blue moon in order to uphold the myth that the "right man" will use his "superior sexual skill," to knock their socks off without their having to take any initiative. It might be a nice fantasy, one that society clearly perpetuates, but in the meantime they're going to have a lot of "not so great" sex. No wonder a majority women say they would rather go out to dinner than have sex!

Five Minutes to Orgasm Every Time You Make Love: Female Orgasm Made Simple

What Men Really Want In Bed: The Surprising Secrets Men Wish Women Knew About Sex

What do men wish women knew about sex? The answer's not as simple as you think! In What Men Really Want in Bed, 200 men from all backgrounds and walks of life reveal frank, surprising truths about sex and what really turns them on (and off), including: The most exciting thing a lover has ever done to them in bed; What kinds of things their partners do that make them feel special and appreciated; How they really feel about oral sex; What they wish their wives and girlfriends knew about seduction, foreplay, masturbation, intercourse, sexual positions, body image, and more.

200 men from all backgrounds and walks of life reveal frank, surprising truths about sex and what really turns them on (and off)!

Just bought my own copy

...having perused a friend's copy of it last night. I've also read Red Hot Tantra by the same author and would highly recommend her short stories to anyone who enjoys good erotica.

Interesting, useful, and ok... fun

We passed this book around at a party and had a great time reading the results of the many surveys and the insights revealed in the interviews. Very interesting information turned up in this book!

Great book with great insight

If you need to get into your man's mind and better understand why he acts the way he does, this is a great book for you.

What Men Really Want In Bed: The Surprising Secrets Men Wish Women Knew About Sex

Mind-Blowing Orgasms Every Day: 365 Wild and Wicked Ways to Revitalize Your Sex Life

*Position of the Week spotlights give a tune-up to the tired positions in your arsenal.

*Victorian erotica for when you need a steamy bed-time story.

*Oral and manual techniques to drive your lover (and you) wild.

*Exotic tantric tips to reach fulfillment of the highest human potential.

*Solo celebrations for naughty explorations.

For anyone who's ever wondered about it, fantasized about it, wished they had it, or wondered how they lost it, here are 365 days of encouragement to set the tone for reaping lots of it in the coming year. Whether you're playing alone, trying to reignite the flames in an established marriage, or starting to heat up things with a new partner, you'll find plenty of tips and techniques to keep your love life umming.

Rediscover the fun, excitement, and sheer satisfaction of really good sex! Mind-Blowing Orgasms Every Day is 365 days (and nights!) of emblazoned naughtiness that will leave you and your lover tingling with anticipation and panting for more!

For anyone who's ever wondered about it, fantasized about it, wished they had it, or wondered how they lost it, here are 365 days of encouragement to set the tone for reaping lots of it in the coming year.

Mind-Blowing Orgasms Every Day: 365 Wild and Wicked Ways to Revitalize Your Sex Life